Intimacy Is Always Something That You Create, Right?

i want to be very cautious to not go down the road of bashing some of that crowd, as it can be. intimacy is always something that you create, right? Like, it's not something that's given, and it's not a chemical reaction. People on line are often trying to create conditions where they think that chemical reaction will exist. To pretend that you can know to a certain extent, am just by arranging everything about it, is also wrong.