I was astounded by his sort of magnanimous response to your mother's relationship with Harry and your subsequent birth I mean he was very willing to take on the responsibility of that need in her because of his own lack of participation in the marriage at times. He really did come through in this moment so because the film is about that moment I let him shine as brightly as he did in that moment. It does affect me deeply to be able to tell the truth of my life and to not have to be protecting him anymore. But I also weirdly don't think he'd argue with any of it.