Is 60-40 Really Attainable?

I feel like there's people who enjoy a good group situation. I have to imagine you wouldn't have to explore too far into your profile listings or any fetish site to get there. There's a good fetish community around here. It's pretty fun. And I could even reach it by 40. Yeah, is that true? Do you really feel like that? Because being bipolar is kind of a bitch, so I never know what'm going to happen.