i am hearing a lot that you make your social interactions are alcula andand not out of a desire to take advantage of any one, but just because i think what i am also hearing from you. Some of the empathic circuitry that allows people to ike naturally, like to know how to swim, is isn't quite intact. And so you have to rely, you have to figure out other ways. In tatons, it sounds really tough. Man, ther you've mentioned specifically about not trying to taking advantage of others. I growing up before i knew i was artistic, that was one of the big things that i dealt with a lot.