How to Stay Safe and Happy in a Breakup

You've made a life there. Your kids love it. All your friends are there. That's very important when you're going through a breakup. I would say as well though, be careful if he is being abusive towards the children. Like, maybe it is safer if you do want to move towns for that reason but if you feel like the kids are safe with him, it is nice to have the shared custody.