"I don't think the idea of not compare. People say comparison is the thief of joy, right? And and ed ah ad, my let, talks about this a lot, like zero comparison," he says. "Very few people present themselves as they truly are in the moment." He's been told his entire life that i should never compare myself to anyone. Be authentic, be genuine, and don't worry about what other people are doing. 'That's just how we humans operate': We try to put on our best front every day.