Romance Is Really an Anaesthetic

You have felt that before, and most likely that was in your childhood. And so you have drawn to yourself the partner who really brings up your greatest frustrations... Your other stuff is well, but your frustrations is alterish. It's almost like you have an unconscious censure in you, just wandering around, searching the world. All of a sudden there's that person who's going to be just right to become your nightmare. Because they're going to invite you into those parts of you that didn't grow in childhood. They activate all those wounds that you had and all the unmet needs, all the defences that you develop. So when we get bonded to them, then it's like