The Most Important Thing in This Moment, Rich

"The most important thing in this moment, rich, is not to figure out why you can't call them," she says. "You have to make a choice whether you're gong to let it be in control, or whether you're going to be in controlel." She suggests that the shame of calling your parents could shield them from their own embarrassment. But he also wonders if his proud parents would ever feel ashamed about what they've done.