"Hard to detach it's hard to not let your ego get involved so before you go into a meeting with your boss that you know has a bad temper or a meeting withyour employee that you know have a big ego," he says. "Decide how you're gonna act before you go in there yep decide how you're going to act right yeah and  you know exactly what you could do because you thought about in advanceYou practice it you rehearsed it a thousand times when my parachute fails i'm not i'm not having to think about what i'm gonna do", the former marine adds.