I think it's fine to alter who you are. You don't want to create a situation where one person isn't changing, and the other person is like, doing allh anging. Ask for help, especially from your female friends. Upgrade your wardrobe. Ask them to set you up with some one. Be like, ha, i need some update. Like, help me out with my tinder profile, right? Whatif don't have female friends? From butt farm poker? I don't even know what that means,. but i i got, i'm trying to be fair here. But i have wonder if there's a correlation between the name butt farm poker and your inability