The Importance of Understanding Yourself

As a kid, I can sort of talk about all sorts of things that seemed obvious to me. Like it would be better if I was a girl, but like it didn't seem like a real thing to do. And then something quite big happened in my life, which was the death of my father. That was a real moment for me of like, you mustn't cause a fuss now. It's not always as conscious as that but I think you do sort of tell yourself that something isn't important. Some of those things over time just creep up on you and they become more and more a thing that you realize you have to deal with.