How Do You Handle Hardships?

How do you handle hardships? Because moses handled them a really specific way. Are you the type that just ignores it, says a man, i'm just gong is not happening. Do you need to drink something tat make you don't feel it as much any more? How do you deal when you're weary? Is it substance? Do you lash out, because you haven't actually processed this thing now you take it out on somebody else who's not even associated with it?