I'm Asking You Questions About My Side of the Story

You have to stand up for your needs and what you feel. It's very important what you feel just as much as what she feels, regardless of who wants the relationship more. Don't shut down from what she just said. Let me try to be more curious here,. That's what i want you to remember, mostly that's what this is all about, is get curious about what she just saying. And now you're both learning a little bit more about where you guys are at, ok?