The Number Two Reason That People Don't Get Rich

Successful people don't hide their failures, they talk about them. They use the failure as a motivation to become winners later. Failure defeats losers. The failure is not the problem. This is more than money. This is life in general, right? And then we have this nice sentnce, failure inspires winners. It's actually the same as number one. Why are people so negative and pessimistic?