So many people allow themselves to fall into the trap of being someone's back up plan. We put up with mixed signals early in a relationship hek we'll even put up with hearing i'm not looking for a relationship from some one else all because we want to be that chill person. But then, you know, it's like three months, five months, maybe even a year later, and nothing has changed. You're still being strung along. And so i think the most value i can add here is to just amp you up. It's to hipe you up to respect what you feel, torespect what you see, to respectwhat you hear. If somebody makes you