Is This Assertive or Aggressive?

The line between assertiveness and aggressiveness reminds me of the line between confidence and arrogance. Ask a woman that you know and have a good sort of relationship with mother, maybe not your mother, sister, friend, best friends, girlfriend. And ask her if it makes you look attractive or like a douchebag. All young guys are animals. I was an animal too. A young guy too. We tend not to have super good understandings of empathy.