The Importance of Commitment

Pelagius or Augustine more likely to say love is a choice Pelagius that's Pelagius all over Augustine would never say now love is given as plaitically as marital advice isn't it terrible marital advice. I'm always led by my desires by what I love but right where my heart isLove is a choice who would say that? We uphold commitment of course we're into commitment but basically it's selling a ball and chain marriage you locked in together whether you like it or not so it upholds commitment but it doesn't uphold the healthy relationship of the slightest. That's not a healthy relationship for a healthy relationship you want the actual love for each other that I actually