Ena Montreso: I grew up in a troubled time, but i don't remember. And my parents did not reflect or dwell on that trouble. They shielded me. If if they were nervous about the state of the world, i didn't know it. A more friendship based model of parenting now we might be sharing too much of our our anxieties and our own concerns with kids. So i think what i would encourage parents, instead parents, caregivers and guardians, to do is ask somebody close to you. Do you feel like i'm sharing the right amount of ation with my kids? Or do you think i'm oversharing oir under sharing?