Suffering is actually a critical part of the ingredient for repentance, godly sorrow. And so you have to have that soft heart to understand that there are times when,. even if you're very successful, even if you don't have any scandal in your life, you know, you're going to need to be humble and nto repent and change your ways. But at the same time, i'm a highly imperfect person who needs ugt i need to hear a thoughtful critique. I've never really figured out that balance. Well one more ingredient can add to the thick skin, which most close friends, which i don't know, but it's important. It took me months before