150. Couples Therapy: The Tools You Need with Dr. Orna Guralnik
We Can Do Hard Things
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Couple Therapy: The Challenge of Dealing With Otherness
The journey is to negotiate otherness. In the crisis that always gets created between a couple, it's always ultimately a crisis about otherness. How do you deal with the fact that your partner is different from you? It's what you need and it's what you will struggle with. So we need to become more political system, less evangelists for our own way. Love it. Yes. Isn't that interesting? Because when you think about the otherness, it either leads to this pattern of kind of righteous, I am correct, and you are wrong, blame, cycle or it leads to, I see that you are other and incorrect. Holy shit. That's interesting. Exactly
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