Are You Trying to Get a Third Party's Opinion on a Relationship?

She's been with her partner for nine years and they've got two kids together. But he refuses to accept this and move out of the house. He comes over to see his children in s i need to see my fucking kid. They don't sleep together, they don't go out together. At any one point their relation is either just ok or extremely toxic. So what should she do? Would she be an ausehold if she did it? And then so she's thinking, right, i've tried everything to get this gy t my howser. It's not worth in iv see them married.