The Importance of Libido

There's a whole chapter on libido in my book. There are two ways of looking at it: the spontaneous desire, which is what people think high libido and you're like, sex is always on your brain. And then there's the responsive desire, which gets called low libido, which is wrong. This is just somebody that's going to need stimulation. You've got to get things going before things get going. If you've been feeling inhibited but want to try something good for yourself, play with different times of orgasms. Hormone levels can change depending on whether or not you have an ovaries. The sexual phase might switch with your menstrual cycle as well.

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