You should be saying no more often in your dating life. It's like not to shame you if you're the kind of person who always says yes. In fact, say yes to as many first or second dates as you can. If you want to find that person who gives you what you need and you're in your life, you have to say no to people who clearly can't deliver on that. You look to your past and say, i learned this, and that is why i'm saying no. And that is empowering. But we're going to draw the line. We're going to say, no more one sided relationships. Once you have a sense of yourself together, you