The chapter delves into the concept of shared rituals in relationships, emphasizing how seemingly small shared experiences can create a sense of magic and connection. It discusses examples of shared rituals, from writing common words on pieces of paper to attending concerts together, highlighting the unique aspects that make relationships special. The conversation also touches on a performance art piece where two individuals sat and stared at each other for an extended period, exploring the power of being seen and visually connecting with another human being.
While religion may play less of a role in many people's lives, rituals--the lifeblood of religion--remain central to the human experience. Listen as Michael Norton of the Harvard Business School explains how and why rituals remain at the center of our lives--they give meaning to life-cycle events and secular holidays, calm our fears, and give us a sense of control when the pressure to perform can otherwise overwhelm us.