I've Even Said, I Don't Good Luck With This, but Talk Me to the Public Ceremony

i didn't realize how much i the struggle was with the difference, sort of, between juste getting of the married and the public ceremony. It is hard, because i really do see m it's not sacramental, but its, it's a public thing. Having the people involved that are gong to help you stay married, asa part of a larger family and support structure, i think it's an important thing too.