You have to tailor what you say to make sure that people don't put you in a box, cause they are not going to take you out of that box exactly. Even the most plain person that you can predict behaviour of, you won't know them inside out, but you'll feel like you do. If you keep people slightly on their toes, it's the only thing that breeds respect and admiration. We subconsciously cannot believe someone we know inside out has a soul. It's a solepistic kind of thing. Whereor you think they're a robot that you can make do whatever you want. They're no longer a person. The other aspect of this modern world is that