How to Help Your Partner Understand Theirself Better

Sometimes when we ask, we rely on questions for understanding our partners don't know themselves. So you can actually help them understand themselves better by connecting the dots as a partner and going, Oh, well, remember your mom said this at age five, this thing happened and she behaved this way. And I kind of like your mom sometimes. Be open, be interested, communicate, but try to, try to understand them without just waiting for them to explain themselves to you. That's the bottom line. Yes.