The Relationship Component of Ministering

i'm very assertive now about those kinds of things, and i just say, i don't want a message. I want exactly conversation. And it does and dos. Contrary to my excitement when i about it, the nvenus programme, i also had and have a lot of scepticism. That's who i am, and that's part of me. But i've learned not to let that out unless i have abundant evidence that someone is safe to talk to kind of thing. You you have to observe carefully and take a little time and observe closely in order to assess  and then there's the direct asking.