Are You Getting Curious When You Get Depressed?

"It's not normal to hear something that you find offensive or threatening and get curious about it," she says. "I think what it is is understanding who you are and what works for you, understanding your unique triggers as well." She advises parents to practise active listening with their children in order to make them feel hurt instead of angry. 'If you can distil it for them and play it back and check if you got it right, half the time, that's all they wanted'