Do You Like Oatmeal?

When you approach a girl, they're immediately thinking. Is this gy a creepy freak that im going to reject right now? Or is this gocute and confident d i want to keep talking to him.? You have to come across non threatening. So when i ask sking me, do you like oatmeal? They're thinking, oh, um, i guess i do kind of like it. And then you take thethe air out of it, like a the anxiety, the ax situation. Ice breaker, i makes it valid. I mean, not te not lead with, how can i get your number? Couse in t sait. No, every time. Ladies,