How Do I Become Friends With My Spouse?

If you don't really have a friendship at the base of your marriage, it's going to really negatively affect your sex life. The more we can be friends with one another, the better our sex life is going to get. Are you holding hands? Are you cuddling? Are you connecting verbally? All of these things matter both for your friendship with your spouse and then ultimately for the sexual intimacy in your marriage.