I think that it's a universal human thing to need some amount of, I don't know if I want to call it self-actualization, but to need meaning in their lives. At weddings when people cry, it's usually when the music starts playing and when there is calamity after tragedies, people sing the mourn. Even when people have no food on the table, they still have dreams. And so it's harder, you might not have time to do yoga and you might not be able to dream about something as bleak as God or like we are in the gutter at the moment. That said, especially when your circumstances are bleak, this quote about man being ape and God
Visakan Veerasamy is a prolific thinker, writer & creator. As well as being the author of the books ‘Introspect’ and ‘Friendly Ambitious Nerd’, he is known for weaving huge, interconnected Twitter threads and for his mission to build “the greatest social graph of friendly, ambitious nerds that the world has ever seen.” Important Links:
Show Notes:
- The origins of Friendly Ambitious Nerd
- “The most heroic thing you can do is not hate yourself”
- Confronting the minotaur
- Introspection & Maslow’s hierarchy of needs
- Overriding human OS
- Humor is the cure
- How to demonstrate the power of humor
- Dealing with judgment & criticism
- Responding to requests for help
- Enforcing a no-assholes rule
- "Focus your time and energy on what you want to see more of”
- “School is bullshit”
- Question defaults & screw around
- MUCH more!
Books Mentioned:
- Friendly Ambitious Nerd; by Visakan Veerasamy
- Introspect; by Visakan Veerasamy
- The Science of Storytelling; by Will Storr
- The Status Game: On Social Position and How We Use It; by Will Storr
- The Hero with a Thousand Faces; by Joseph Campbell
- Shantaram; by Gregory David Roberts
- The Art of War; by Sun Tzu
- The Tao Te Ching; by Laozi
- The Lord of the Rings; by J. R. R. Tolkien