It was probably the most stable that my kids had known And how long did that stability last for? I would say probably the first four years maybe in the marriage, and then started seeing some real issues You know, there was unfaithfulness on his part, and then he ended up taking his life 28 years ago, so Again, a lot, and like I said, I never tell all this all at once, but you think back through it, and you're like, oh my gosh, how did any of us, you know, turn out But again, that was the healing that God's provided in my life, and letting me know that I am valuable.