And we're

not talking about like one side was hiding anything. We're talking about like, you said, all right, well, we're going to do this and we're going to sell the house and then I want to move and you didn't take a moment to go. What are what's the cost to live in this neighborhood if I want to keep the show you agreed to keep the kids in the school district? But you didn't do your research ahead of time and because you've been living there for 10 years and now all of a sudden you realize that geez, even an apartment would be $2,500 a month. And you can't afford that because you're between alimony and child support. Maybe you're only getting, you know, 1800 or 2000 and you hadn't even, you know, you haven't had a job in a while. And so all of a sudden you find yourself in a position that you can't comply with the settlement agreement because you didn't take a moment to go, well, hang on a minute. What's it going to cost me to stay in this school district? So that's just one example of how you by rushing to discuss settlement too early, you can put yourself in a really bad position. We believe in settlement, but you need to settle knowing what you need to know everything you can in order to enter a an effective settlement and when we come back, we'll continue to break down divorce strategies that do not work. I just wanted to

let you know that if you ever wanted to listen to the show live, you can listen at 1 a.m. on Monday mornings on WSB. So you can always check us out there as well. Better than like counting sheep, I guess, right? That's right. You can turn on the show and we'll we'll help you fall asleep. There you go. I'll talk very soft.