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Susan Cain | The Power of Bittersweetness

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You're Obsessive With Someone, It's Not About Them

i went through a period in my life when i was younger where i had just ended a seven year relationship. I fell into a relationship with te musician, actually. And it became this kind of crazy, obsessive relationship,. But one day she said to me if you're this obsessed with somebody, it's not really about the person themselves. It's about what they represent to you. So you're obsessed with him because you're longing for something. What does he represent to you? That which you long for that you don't have right now? The minute she said that, i knew exactly what she meant. And i know this sounds too cinema, let's say, but i swear the

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