How to Navigate Yourself in the World of Education

I was really struggling when I reached tertiary education because I I that was my plan and for a teenager that was a teenager's plan they don't think so far no one in my family probably no noone expected me to get to tertiary education. For someone who sort of comes from this really gender and background and how can this woman sort of find that this navigate themselves in this world where you have to unlearn and reparent yourself? The big one is that finding that equality because if you've only been if you've grown up in an environment where knowing that like who you are is not equal then to come into this world and to start seeing feeling equal it's a huge step.