Is That Really the Goal That You're Trying to Reach Out To?

Sally Kohn: It doesn't sound like this person is spreading things around that you were their abuser or like coming at you in some particular way. And I think the question that you need to ask yourself is like, what is the thing that's driving you to want to correct them? She says it's not the work to try and tell other people or get other people to believe us differently or to see us differently. Kohn: The work is to understand ourselves more deeply,. to live in our values more authentically, and to be okay with the fact that some people out there aren't going to see us living in those values because they're not in our heads, our bodies