Paternal Sacrifice

If the father isn't willing to put his son out into the world, let's say, to be broken and betrayed in all those things, then that's an onstarter. So if those three things don't happen, then it's cataclysmic, it's chaotic, it's hell. If they do happen, is it the opposite of that? Well, you could say, well, maybe it depends on the degree to which they happen. And and it's a continuum. How thoroughly can they happen? Well, we don't know. It's not a very elegant metaphor. But, um, you learn that it's kind of relief, relief not to be the centre of