The Importance of Interdependence in Relationships

When we want to experience love as in healthy love then that has got to be about interdependence where we are able to retain our respective selves but also work together as a team. When we go at romantic relationships from this place of looking for somebody to fill a serpent, to fill that void it ends up causing us to go down a track that can only lead to painful relationships. We tend to gravitate often to people who are narcissistically inclined or certainly just think far too highly of themselves and who don't mind giving themselves the authority to run our lives. That doesn't end up leading to a genuinely mutually fulfilling meaning for relationship it just leads to a whole load of pain.