Louise Moore: I see a lot of women who have a mother wound or a relationship with mom that wasn't authentic, shall we say. Not having an authentic relationship with your mom doesn't mean she stepped into the house and completely invalidated your ignoring. She might have been pretending to be okay. And so you never really got that true vulnerability with her and true connection. The pain of comparison is never truly having a safe spacereally with women that you can go in and reflect...and get a true sense of who you are.
Does the health of your Mum determine the health of your friendships? This week, in your #FreeTherapyFix, Louise and Stephanie explore how our early relationships with our mothers can impact our ability to form and maintain friendships with women later in life.
The pair dive into:
π« How does the emotional inconsistency of your mother affect your social relationships with others?
π« Exploring the psychology of the βgirls girlβ and the βonly friends with guyβs girlβ
π« Have you ever felt too much for your friends?
π« Why some people isolate themselves from their friends in times of need
π« And why it is never too late to find, work on or nurture your female friendships.
Louise & Stephanie also discuss Louiseβs own personal experiences with βfeeling too muchβ in a friendship, and why she often wants to isolate. Stephanie drops some light bulb truths.
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Music Sources
β Vibe With Me by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarud
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