The Financial Order of Operations

A lot of times when people come into a big windfall, they start rushing into making rapid decisions. The first thing is this whole slow down. Don't let somebody push you into making a decision quickly under some false pretense that there's a requirement of something. And then I would tell people if you are coming in the marriage with nothing, do those combined finances so one person's not the control or builder wealth because you're trying to step outside of yourself. That's a big part of that controlling that inner voice too.