Mad melina talks about her relationship with her mother, N. She says she feels a small version of that whet everyone else wonts to linke,. But feel that even more with her. So i'm going to point something out in your thought precess, which is super, super tricky, ok. On the one hand, it sounds like your mam has been very, very emotionally manipulative and continues to be emotionally manipulative. And is really chipped away. Its some part of you that other people can like then use. You may actually attract people who like, use that vulnerability on you. Because when they need something from you, and then you're like, oh, ye