The question hits you when you least expect it, and yet it's there constantly. Am i a good parent? Am i doing enough? Am i screwing this up? It's reassuring to say every parent thinks this, but it's actually not true. There are two types of parents who never think that - the self-absorbed ones or those who have quit on themselves and their family. You can always give them attention, understanding and love. In fact, you must always do them because in the end, those are more important than all the other things. And finally, your kid is not like all kids. Your child is utterly unique and singular. View them accordingly. Forget comparison