There is a selection bius. The dissatisfaction correlates with a sense of lack of self worth, a lack of forgiveness and a lack of accepting yourself for where you are. So it's challenging, but very common and very adaptive,. Even if you're like an immigrant, like i am, or like comig, from an immigrant fam this is the attitude that we grew up with. And why did we grow up with this attitude? There is a selectionBius.