How to Have Healthy Sexual Relationships After Going Through Sexual Trauma

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I feel like if a friend of mine said that basically like every night after work and every weekend they just spend all of their spare time watching Netflix I would be concerned about them as well. It doesn't mean they're addicted to Netflix it just means that they're using it and they're over using it because there's a disturbance underneath that they are not resolving. So we do have questions about that so listeners please take care of yourselves if you don't want to hear about thisBasically somebody asked how to have healthy sexual relationships after going through sex-related trauma big question. "One of the main thing to be really conscious of is is to be absolutely sure of what feels right and what does

In this episode, Hannah is joined by Silva Neves, who is a psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist and author, to dispel all the myths around sex addiction and give us a better framework to view sexual behaviour through. Silva talks about the difference between the public idea of sex addiction and the understanding of it in a sex therapy clinic, and gives us a rundown on the definition of addiction and so how sex and porn addictions don't fit into it. Hannah and Silva then discuss compulsive sexual behaviours, which is what someone who might think they are a porn addict could be experiencing, and the causes of these behaviours and the potential distress they can cause.

CW: Discussion of sexual trauma. Main discussion begins at 40:11. Please skip this episode if you need to and look after yourself!

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✨MORE ABOUT SILVA NEVES✨
Silva Neves is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychosexual and relationship
psychotherapist, and a trauma psychotherapist. He is a Pink Therapy Clinical Associate. He
sees individuals and couples presenting with a wide range of sex and relationship issues.
Silva specialises in working with sexual trauma and compulsive sexual behaviours.
Silva is a Course Director for CICS (Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology) and speaks
internationally. Silva is the author of Compulsive Sexual Behaviours, A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians (2021, Routledge).

Website: https://www.silvaneves.co.uk/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/SilvaNeves3
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/silvanevespsychotherapy/

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