You Love Your Life and You Love It Forever

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"I think one of the failings that maybe a lot of couples kind of potentially go through is not acknowledging that you may desire other people, whether or not you want to act on it," she says. "For a lot of people, desire at least isn't reserved for one person forever." She recently got married and said in the vows, it was like, 'You'll do all of these things for the rest of your married life together' The last time they even went to a Swinger party has been about a year ago.

In this episode, Hannah is joined by Shani and Tony Hart, who are swingers and who own two erotic boutiques called Hart’s Desires. Shani and Tony discuss what swinging is, Shani and Tony’s boundaries and how to find your own, as well as how to find fellow swingers and events and the importance of communication. They and Hannah talk about the swinging scene in relation to feminist and anti-racist spaces, and the segregation they’ve witnessed in the swinging community. Finally, Hannah, Shani, and Tony discuss running a business together, conflicts in relationships, and therapy.

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Shani and Tony Hart are a married couple who are swingers and own two erotic boutiques called Hart’s Desires. Find out more:
- Hart’s Desires shop: https://hartsdesires.com/
- Twitter: https://twitter.com/hartsdesires
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hartsdesires/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HARTS.DESIRES2/

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