The Importance of Being Seen

Dating is about being seen and I think so many of us forget in dating when we're in this kind of egoic mode that doesn't mean arrogant it could mean egoic in the really negative sense like we think we're worth nothing. So I love that idea of oh this person that I was just on a date with did not recognize my value in the way that I would want them to or they didn't recognize what I value. My dear future husband. Well that's really cool. Yeah. That's such a powerful question because it's about being seen. And by definition the person who we go on a date without going anywhere hasn't seen us. And they haven't seen