How Do I Really Want to Feel?

Most people go about getting clarity on what they want from a wrong perspective. Instead of saying, how do I want to feel? And then from that, figure out, okay, what actually needs to happen for me to be able to feel that way. That's different for everybody. You might have just done an exercise in one of these random books that you've read because you think you should. Okay. So this is awesome because it leads me right into the first point I wanted to make.