What's the Best Way to Lead Other People?

The best fighters, the best warriors and the best rulers are calm and controlled. They have self- discipline and self-control at a high level - they're not wild. And mostly what they do is they the phrase in English is lead by example. It means that they rather than tell people, it's trying to persuade by talking. This is following the Tao since ancient times, it is the way of virtue, the way of goodness.