A, i think the big lesson here is that you can have more than one father figure or parental figure in your life. A, like garry chandling, none of us got everything that we needed right. None of us were born in exactly the family that sets us up to who we want to be. And so having these mentors is so, so important,. Having these people who can shape and influence and change and inspire and guide you. As they say that it takes a village, we need more.